First Kiss

Chet and I are pretty straight forward with the boys on what is ok and what is not. We tell them about dating and steady dating, and those kinda things pretty bluntly (although we know they won't always follow them, we have stated them pretty firmly and set the expectation). But we have never said anything to them about when it's ok to kiss. We don't think that's our place to say to them. They will have to make that decision on their own, and then we will talk about it when it does happen. That's kinda the plan for now. So the other day we were sitting around, and I asked the twins if they would tell me when they had their first kiss. They were kinda embarrassed, but I told them that I would hope they would come to me and tell me after their first kiss. Cars says, "Mom, I think that you will be there." I was sooooo confused. I said, "I will?" He said, "Yeah. You will be at my wedding won't you?" That's the second time that he has said something like that. I looked at Chet and smiled and grabbed my cute little boy and hugged him and told him that gives me a long time to be the only girl he kisses!!!